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Question: Should coach get diffrent treatmen than coach 3years ago  (Voting closed: May 21, 2008, 08:36:50 AM)
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« Reply #30 on: May 23, 2008, 02:00:17 PM »

It should say I pay for kids with talent I can,t train kids When I drop my F-bombs they don,t get my motovation!But hey you parents are stupid so PAYME!
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« Reply #31 on: May 23, 2008, 02:05:24 PM »

It should say:

Even if you are not that talented as long as you have a hot mom or lots of money you can play for my team.  

One question?  If he is that great of a "coach"  why is he coaching for a Premier Team in WA state and not at some big pro or semi-pro club.
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« Reply #32 on: May 23, 2008, 02:12:52 PM »

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It should say:

Even if you are not that talented as long as you have a hot mom or lots of money you can play for my team.  

One question?  If he is that great of a "coach"  why is he coaching for a Premier Team in WA state and not at some big pro or semi-pro club.


Runs into problems with invester  Wifes at the next level seem to like being a wanbe ladys man more than just doing his job!Is what I heard But it does sound right  

By any new cars lately pushpop!
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« Reply #33 on: May 23, 2008, 02:27:49 PM »

hey gang, let's not start berating the kids on any team, let alone the one(s) being coached by whomever this is about.  please, even if you think their moms or dads are hot  Cool ......or their bentleys
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« Reply #34 on: May 23, 2008, 02:33:56 PM »

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hey gang, let's not start berating the kids on any team, let alone the one(s) being coached by whomever this is about.  please


I was not berating any kids.  Just stating a fact that this "coach"  has not always recruited kids based on their talent.  I have witnessned this first hand as one of my DK used to play for him.
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« Reply #35 on: May 23, 2008, 04:56:40 PM »

Crossfire certainly needs to do something, and something credible at that.  

If this goes before the WYS Coaches Ethics Committee - and it should - then the coach is going to half to change the spelling of his name to "KNEEL".

Seriously, there are some guidelines for dealing with coaches who make these sorts of transgressions.   If Crossfire continues in a cover up, they will end up getting slapped by the state as well.
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« Reply #36 on: May 23, 2008, 05:06:58 PM »

this is so ironic as I was around when Gary O went through his ethics issues with the state.  Neil M hated the ground that Gary O walked on and did everything in his power to make it so that he couldn't compete and now all of this comes up....as the world turns.
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« Reply #37 on: May 23, 2008, 05:29:51 PM »

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this is so ironic as I was around when Gary O went through his ethics issues with the state.  Neil M hated the ground that Gary O walked on and did everything in his power to make it so that he couldn't compete and now all of this comes up....as the world turns.


This is not the first time that we have seen such turnabout in coaching.  

My biggest concern isn't how hard Meggie's wrist is going to be slapped for all the various crimes and misdeeds, it is what form the retaliation will take against those who refused to look the other way.
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« Reply #38 on: May 23, 2008, 06:33:20 PM »

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this is so ironic as I was around when Gary O went through his ethics issues with the state.  Neil M hated the ground that Gary O walked on and did everything in his power to make it so that he couldn't compete and now all of this comes up....as the world turns.



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« Reply #39 on: May 23, 2008, 10:01:52 PM »

I want to know how the hell they talked dick mcCormic in to giveing this guy teams on the girls side!Dick is a smart guy he hates having problem and and I can,t see him wanting neal megson on the girls side I,ll bet it was a yell fest to get this buy Dicky!
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« Reply #40 on: May 24, 2008, 01:52:02 AM »

Don't know about his younger team(s), but the GU18 team was pretty weak.  Condition of his coming over was that certain players from his old club came with - never mind if they were better or worse than the three or four LIFETIME Xfire girls (on the team since U11) he cut to make room for his new girls.  This at U18, the last year for these girls.  And look how it turned out - they were a weak team in league, in tournaments and didn't even make it out of the prelim rounds in state cup.

And he is supposed to be an uber-coach?
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« Reply #41 on: May 24, 2008, 02:05:32 AM »

What a bunch of "Bitter Betty's" all you Crossfire groupies are!  Like you just figured it out? Crossfire has always had the same level of cover-up, back-door, buddy-buddy bullshit.  As do most other clubs including my own.  Just try to keep it away from your kids and let them enjoy soccer with the best possible coach you can find for them.  Club politics can be dirty and disgusting even at it's best.
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« Reply #42 on: May 24, 2008, 07:50:42 AM »

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What a bunch of "Bitter Betty's" all you Crossfire groupies are!  Like you just figured it out? Crossfire has always had the same level of cover-up, back-door, buddy-buddy bullshit.  As do most other clubs including my own.  Just try to keep it away from your kids and let them enjoy soccer with the best possible coach you can find for them.  Club politics can be dirty and disgusting even at it's best.


Thats a good point so if you know theres a coach that is alway doing  $hit and the kids are exsposed to it what needs to happen is happening there getting called out Megson has Croosed the line again its not the first time its the 18th time and enuffIs enuff! I-say
At this point he is affecting to many kids! And somthing has to be done so DayZ you saying just let it go are you saying get it done?
If your saying let it go PLEASE tell me you don,t have KIDS
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« Reply #43 on: May 24, 2008, 09:30:10 AM »

Well, if he was in a working environment with children (schools, day care) he would be fired and not allowwed to work with children again.  Shouldn't it be the same policy for sports?
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« Reply #44 on: May 24, 2008, 03:35:20 PM »

LWYSA has a clear "Standard of conduct:" ~ expectations for Coaches, Players, Parents.

 
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Coaches are charged with the responsibility ok keeping a positive attitude toward all of the players on the team, opponents and parents. .....should remember that the Association for their team gives them an adult supervisory role and ..... are expected to be a good role model for youth soccer players. ..... also have responsibility for teaching the tactics and techniques of the game as well as instilling Sportsmanship and respect in their players toward the game
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« Reply #45 on: May 24, 2008, 09:32:22 PM »

Absolutely do not let it go.  One of the benefits of a forum is the ability to expose these sort of abuses.  However, the club is not the only responsible party if something is not done to censor this individual.  Parents are responsible for who they allow to interact with their kids.  Why are the parents not protesting to the club?  Why are they not moving their kids to other teams? A number of years ago we left a state championship team mid-year... the final straw for us was an ugly incident similar to this current allegation, but it occurred in front of the kids.[/list]
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« Reply #46 on: May 25, 2008, 12:34:36 AM »

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Absolutely do not let it go.  One of the benefits of a forum is the ability to expose these sort of abuses.  However, the club is not the only responsible party if something is not done to censor this individual.  Parents are responsible for who they allow to interact with their kids.  Why are the parents not protesting to the club?  Why are they not moving their kids to other teams? A number of years ago we left a state championship team mid-year... the final straw for us was an ugly incident similar to this current allegation, but it occurred in front of the kids.[/list]


Give me an example of why we should protest?...What abuse are we talking about?
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« Reply #47 on: May 25, 2008, 01:22:57 AM »

guess what? Since I do not have a kid on one of the teams coached by this coach and I don't even have a kid in the club... it's not my job to do your investigating for you.  That would be your job.  If you are wholly convinced that this coach is a good role model and influence for your kid, then I guess you're ok.  There have been plenty of examples of people being vilified on these forums with no basis in truth.  In our case, we personally witnessed the incidence(s) with our coach and left the team.  My 2 & 1/2 cents is that clubs across the board have politics, back door dealing and cover-ups apart from the general membership.  Some coaches have integrity and some coaches know how to make a team successful at whatever level they play.  And some few know how to be good at both.  Find one of those, regardless of the "club".
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« Reply #48 on: May 25, 2008, 09:38:24 AM »

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Absolutely do not let it go.  One of the benefits of a forum is the ability to expose these sort of abuses.  However, the club is not the only responsible party if something is not done to censor this individual.  Parents are responsible for who they allow to interact with their kids.  Why are the parents not protesting to the club?  Why are they not moving their kids to other teams? A number of years ago we left a state championship team mid-year... the final straw for us was an ugly incident similar to this current allegation, but it occurred in front of the kids.[/list]


Give me an example of why we should protest?...What abuse are we talking about?
Well well well Here is my other puppet duh Your kid plays for him you know what goes on!pushpop  said your one crazy arss wife is good looking but may be crazy also! He said it killed you when berry said team was band from site!You seem to have a strong oppionion I just wonder if it is as misslead as your team was last year! A great bunch of kids coach right out of thr quarters! That sucks worst performane by a crossfire bu11 in five years! You tell me this how does a guy take a team of great kids that were woopen every one and by the end have them playing average! BAD COACH!!!And to talk $hit to compleat strangers about parents on his team Now thats A guy I want my kid to play for!

Heres your example this guy called another coach and threatened him with violance it has been documented and filed with your club on 5\19\08 Now you could be a cave man and back these actions by your coach for what ever sick reason you want!Like kid plays all the time you think the team is now paying the right kids now to play that you think your friends with the guy and he wouldd never threaten you I have no clue what makes some of you dumb arss parents put up with some of the $hit that goes on! But there is no place for a guy that treatens other people when things don,t go his way! And I,ll tell you this if he becomes the poster child for this does not fly in youth sports than SO BE IT!! This action is just an acumulation of bad from this guy and you know it huh Were is your sence of right and wrong your kid deserves better!stop treating your son so inproper and just ask for better for him!
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« Reply #49 on: May 25, 2008, 10:18:52 AM »

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Absolutely do not let it go.  One of the benefits of a forum is the ability to expose these sort of abuses.  However, the club is not the only responsible party if something is not done to censor this individual.  Parents are responsible for who they allow to interact with their kids.  Why are the parents not protesting to the club?  Why are they not moving their kids to other teams? A number of years ago we left a state championship team mid-year... the final straw for us was an ugly incident similar to this current allegation, but it occurred in front of the kids.[/list]


Give me an example of why we should protest?...What abuse are we talking about?
Well well well Here is my other puppet duh Your kid plays for him you know what goes on!pushpop  said your one crazy arss wife is good looking but may be crazy also! He said it killed you when berry said team was band from site!You seem to have a strong oppionion I just wonder if it is as misslead as your team was last year! A great bunch of kids coach right out of thr quarters! That sucks worst performane by a crossfire bu11 in five years! You tell me this how does a guy take a team of great kids that were woopen every one and by the end have them playing average! BAD COACH!!!And to talk $hit to compleat strangers about parents on his team Now thats A guy I want my kid to play for!

Heres your example this guy called another coach and threatened him with violance it has been documented and filed with your club on 5\19\08 Now you could be a cave man and back these actions by your coach for what ever sick reason you want!Like kid plays all the time you think the team is now paying the right kids now to play that you think your friends with the guy and he wouldd never threaten you I have no clue what makes some of you dumb arss parents put up with some of the $hit that goes on! But there is no place for a guy that treatens other people when things don,t go his way! And I,ll tell you this if he becomes the poster child for this does not fly in youth sports than SO BE IT!! This action is just an acumulation of bad from this guy and you know it huh Were is your sence of right and wrong your kid deserves better!stop treating your son so inproper and just ask for better for him!


Who was threatened?....Was never banned  from the site I am however bored from the site.......
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« Reply #50 on: May 25, 2008, 10:27:59 AM »

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Absolutely do not let it go.  One of the benefits of a forum is the ability to expose these sort of abuses.  However, the club is not the only responsible party if something is not done to censor this individual.  Parents are responsible for who they allow to interact with their kids.  Why are the parents not protesting to the club?  Why are they not moving their kids to other teams? A number of years ago we left a state championship team mid-year... the final straw for us was an ugly incident similar to this current allegation, but it occurred in front of the kids.[/list]


Give me an example of why we should protest?...What abuse are we talking about?
Well well well Here is my other puppet duh Your kid plays for him you know what goes on!pushpop  said your one crazy arss wife is good looking but may be crazy also! He said it killed you when berry said team was band from site!You seem to have a strong oppionion I just wonder if it is as misslead as your team was last year! A great bunch of kids coach right out of thr quarters! That sucks worst performane by a crossfire bu11 in five years! You tell me this how does a guy take a team of great kids that were woopen every one and by the end have them playing average! BAD COACH!!!And to talk $hit to compleat strangers about parents on his team Now thats A guy I want my kid to play for!

Heres your example this guy called another coach and threatened him with violance it has been documented and filed with your club on 5\19\08 Now you could be a cave man and back these actions by your coach for what ever sick reason you want!Like kid plays all the time you think the team is now paying the right kids now to play that you think your friends with the guy and he wouldd never threaten you I have no clue what makes some of you dumb arss parents put up with some of the $hit that goes on! But there is no place for a guy that treatens other people when things don,t go his way! And I,ll tell you this if he becomes the poster child for this does not fly in youth sports than SO BE IT!! This action is just an acumulation of bad from this guy and you know it huh Were is your sence of right and wrong your kid deserves better!stop treating your son so inproper and just ask for better for him!


Who was threatened?....Was never banned  from the site I am however bored from the site.......
Your a lier and if you don,t know who your even stupider than I thought your coach told you the other day ! Wait a minnute Sorry about that you may want to talk to wife!

That was awkward !

Ps pushpop sent me a PM that you were told to stay off so who,s the lier here ? hmmm
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« Reply #51 on: May 25, 2008, 10:32:24 AM »

Huh says coach is a lier also!

So he is a lier and threatens other people with violacne the lier part was confirmed by parent on one of his team huh!
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« Reply #52 on: May 25, 2008, 10:37:55 AM »

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Huh says coach is a lier also!

So he is a lier and threatens other people with violacne the lier part was confirmed by parent on one of his team huh!


Boy that was a quick response...Again I ask who was threatened?.....When did I say coach was a lier?...PS...I am not interested in responding to your pms so don't bother...
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« Reply #53 on: May 25, 2008, 10:46:20 AM »

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Huh says coach is a lier also!

So he is a lier and threatens other people with violacne the lier part was confirmed by parent on one of his team huh!


Boy that was a quick response...Again I ask who was threatened?.....When did I say coach was a lier?...PS...I am not interested in responding to your pms so don't bother...


Don,t open them idiot And it does not matter who what does matter is that you have not called the front office to protect your kid!
Your one of those guys that likes to play dumb but has the info the whole time!

Wait that does make you dumb Hence you name should be duh
PS fast responce becouse I,m on right now Brain child

I love it I sent another PM and poof he opend it again stop reading my PM duhLOL
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« Reply #54 on: May 25, 2008, 10:49:24 AM »

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Huh says coach is a lier also!

So he is a lier and threatens other people with violacne the lier part was confirmed by parent on one of his team huh!


Boy that was a quick response...Again I ask who was threatened?.....When did I say coach was a lier?...PS...I am not interested in responding to your pms so don't bother...


Don,t open them idiot And it does not matter who what does matter is that you have not called the front office to protect your kid!
Your one of those guys that likes to play dumb but has the info the whole time!

Wait that does make you dumb Hence you name should be duh
PS fast responce becouse I,m on right now Brain child


How can I complain if i don't know who was threatened....Better yet why would i complain anyway?....What would i be protecting my kid from?...
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Huh says coach is a lier also!

So he is a lier and threatens other people with violacne the lier part was confirmed by parent on one of his team huh!


Boy that was a quick response...Again I ask who was threatened?.....When did I say coach was a lier?...PS...I am not interested in responding to your pms so don't bother...


Don,t open them idiot And it does not matter who what does matter is that you have not called the front office to protect your kid!
Your one of those guys that likes to play dumb but has the info the whole time!

Wait that does make you dumb Hence you name should be duh
PS fast responce becouse I,m on right now Brain child


How can I complain if i don't know who was threatened....Better yet why would i complain anyway?....What would i be protecting my kid from?...


At this point your correct no need to protect him from bad coach May want to start with your self!Whos asking you to complain ?thats somthing you will deal with later in life that nagging question of how did I lose touch with reality?

Little help for you Your OLD your wife is young and every thime you think about her the blood rushes from your brain killing more of what your lacking! Thats why you and bad coach are true soul mats! same blood problem!
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« Reply #56 on: May 25, 2008, 11:03:57 AM »

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Huh says coach is a lier also!

So he is a lier and threatens other people with violacne the lier part was confirmed by parent on one of his team huh!


Boy that was a quick response...Again I ask who was threatened?.....When did I say coach was a lier?...PS...I am not interested in responding to your pms so don't bother...


Don,t open them idiot And it does not matter who what does matter is that you have not called the front office to protect your kid!
Your one of those guys that likes to play dumb but has the info the whole time!

Wait that does make you dumb Hence you name should be duh
PS fast responce becouse I,m on right now Brain child


How can I complain if i don't know who was threatened....Better yet why would i complain anyway?....What would i be protecting my kid from?...


At this point your correct no need to protect him from bad coach May want to start with your self!Whos asking you to complain ?thats somthing you will deal with later in life that nagging question of how did I lose touch with reality?

Little help for you Your OLD your wife is young and every thime you think about her the blood rushes from your brain killing more of what your lacking! Thats why you and bad coach are true soul mats! same blood problem!


Why won't you say who was threatened?...Thought you knew all....
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« Reply #57 on: May 25, 2008, 11:59:37 AM »

$$$$$$$$$$= evil
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$$$$$= evil
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« Reply #59 on: May 25, 2008, 04:06:01 PM »

Duh Its funny how hard your trying to get a name you already know! Your such a putz Tell Pushpop he can do better than have some ideiot parent like you work his curupt Backward ways You play on his team you think your his budy you were talking with him a few days ago when he was braging about being untochable! so whats your deal wife to hot to handle and blood has rushed from head again?
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